***A W@lK +♡ R3mEM8eR***: September 2006

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

The moment when you starred at the car that is moving towards you

Studies have shown lotsa people who have been knocked down by car stand there and watch as the car approach.

This is so real, like when ur crossing a road, then suddenly a car approach you, when u see it, what is your natural reaction. U would just say run out of the way, but most of the time, you will just stare at the car and n stone there. Tell me if I'm wrong. =p

This actually explains why passer-bys have can run up to push or pull the person away from the car, simply because the passer by do not have the tendency to just stare at the car.

Dun believe, next time when a car surprise u by the side, tell me you reaction.

I know this sound kinda tough, but it is possible to condition your psycho motor to adapt to the situation. How to do it, i dun actually know, but it is possible, coz i remb learning it in my psy class.
I remembered posting a 96hours a day entry sometime in the early part of this year. Now, there is even a research done that alot of people have 43hours a day. hahaha....

looking at the article, Mexicans has 46hours a day. hahaha....

so what does your maths tell u. that i used to have 96hours a day in a 43hours a day place, so now im in a 46hours place, I'm quite sure that I have more than 100hours a day. =p

The fact and the good thing is that I manage to finish reading 6 chapters of my test for next tuesday today so I do not have to worry when I come back, I also finished my presentation today and I finished my mid term essay today because I will not be around to hand in on friday.

Now, u dun need an idoit to tell u that me having 100 over hours a day is TRUE. =)

43 hours in a day? IT's possible

Info technology allows people to cram in more hours of activity in a day

Sep 27, 2006
The Straits Times

NEW YORK - WHILE many parents lament there is never enough time, the simultaneous use of several technologies is allowing families to cram in 43 hours' worth of activity in one day, a new study claims.
The survey by Yahoo Inc and media buyer OMD untangled the overlapping use of the Internet, telephones, text messaging, radio and television during work and recreation hours for more than 4,700 adults.

Those surveyed came from 16 countries, from the United States to Argentina.


'While using the Internet, people are also doing two or three other things, often watching TV or talking on the phone,' said Mr Mike Hess, global director of research at OMD, part of Omnicom Group.

Mexico, India and China had the highest multi-tasking rates, respectively, packing 46, 45 and 44 hours' worth of tasks into standard days.

At the more relaxed end of the spectrum were France with 34 hours and South Korea with 33.

On average, families said they spent 3.6 hours per day using the Internet, 2.5 hours watching television and an hour on instant messaging.

Work took up 6.4 hours, while time spent with family and friends amounted to 4.5 hours and 1.5 hours respectively.

Across the survey, 70 per cent of respondents said technology helped them to stay in touch with family members.

Nearly one-third of parents questioned said they use mobile phones to check in with their children throughout the day while a quarter of them claimed that instant messaging improved relationships with their offspring.

Real-time communication also means that children are more involved in family decision-making, from travel plans to major product purchases.

This bolsters the idea that advertisers need to figure out more closely who in the home could influence a particular shopping trip.

'Trying to pinpoint the degree of influence of each family member is going to be very important to marketers,' said Yahoo chief sales officer Wenda Harris Millard.

Monday, September 25, 2006

The epitome of Show

Licentiousness is made a show! Vanity and pride are likewise made a show! This is the very business of show!

Everything can be a show. Just as long as u put in more juicy comments than it actually was.

A good show is one where it gives out more than what ordinary people can, and the story is so much more amusing or surprising or shocking than what you really expect of the person.

These shows are call gossips/tales. Which utterly is disgusting. And people speaks the story to bring Lords down to peasants and at the same time he, the one who told, move up in the ranks of nobility.

It is absolutely a beastality behaviour, which I will not condone and I pray with all my heart that they will be banished to the place where scumbags resides.

Being creative is Everything

San Miguel, Mexico

My friend was telling me how beautiful San Miguel was, and true enuff, when i finally saw it, it was simply amazing. San Miguel is a spanish name for St. Michael. It coincides with some festivals, so there are lotsa happening progs the whole day. Woke up late coz alarm clock ran out of batt, so made the whole group waited for me, but is ok la, most of the time is the other way round.

The city was really magnificant, plus the festival that is going on, almost 99% of the crowd are people around my age, so they are there to party. Most of the people will dress in white tops and red scarf.

Reached there just in time for the last bull run. They release 9 bulls, and out of these 9, one was too firghten to make it all the way. I went into the bull race area, and there are like so many people inside. All want to act hero. My purpose was not to act hero, just want to get a picture of the Toro(bull). But unfortunately, so many people are surrounding the fallen bull. Made a couple fo runs, because when the bull made a significant movement, the people near it will smart to react by running backwards and then the people outside will start running too. is like a ripple reaction. I ran like once in every minute for over 15mins, it was so crazy, the excitment and at the same time, the danger that was involve. hahaha. This is the nearest I could get to the bull.

Unfortunately, the bull didn't manage to move any further, and some idoit went to stab the bull. Sigh...

Then went with a bunch of party animals, they are there obviously not to see how nice San Miguel is, but partying is their only reason there. Many people started drinking on Friday, and by Sat, almost 50% of the people is drunk. When nite falls, almost 90% of the people are drunk. And u practically can get alcohol from any shops and people ard the streets are offering u drinks.

My guy friends are busy picking up girls as I stand there, and trying to appreciate the atmosphere, it is like over a few thousands of people crowding around the messed up streets. Obviously, being the only Asian means I'm also the center of attraction. People start coming up to me and asking me if I'm from Japan or Korea. But generally, people here like Asians alot, coz they seldom see Asians. Then again, i really dunno if they meant what they say, bcoz like what i say 90% of the people are drunk. Shall show u one of my very yandao friends from France.
Amazingly, this is one of the only place in Mexico that almost everyone that I talked to on the streets speaks english, and sounds quite good to. Mayb is under the influence of alcohol. I heard that when ur drunk, u tend to be able to speak a foreign language without much difficulty. Hahaha, i think i have to start being drunk from now on....

There are like Mariachis everywhere playing music, and people are dancing salsa to the music. So the whole city is crazily partying... And it the atmosphere is so friendly, that everyone on the street just start chatting up with one another. And the best part is even though there are so many drunkards around, there are no fights, but instead, there are plentiful of love making. =p
Decided not to stay for so long, since I have so much work to do at home, two of the guys and me decided to go back to Mexico City first. We couldn't find any Taxis to the bus terminal, and we ended up walking to it. Luckily, it was near, if not, it will definitely be a problem.

The bus company over sell the tickets and then they were like more people than the seats available. And u know what, I'm one of the 2 who ended up standing for the journey. I was so damn pissed with their management. When the bus started running, I can't really be bothered, and I just put my bag on the floor and lied totally on the floor and slept.

Some people alight on the way, so I go two seats to myself after an hour of sleeping on the floor. My friend was sleeping while standing when he finally woke up and saw me sleeping on the floor, he woke me up and guess what he said to me. "move forward, i want some place to sleep too" hahaha.
This was indeed my 100% Mexican Experience that I will never forget.

Congrats mum...

My mum made it again. She never fails to fully prepare for her exams. When she was taking a part time study, she studied through the night, even more than me when I was studying full time. Ok, thats the different people (my mum) who wants to do well and people (like me) who is always so lazie. Did brilliantly well for her test. Dancing test by some official qualified dancing school from london.

She is teaching Salsa, Ballroom, Line, Tengo, Waltz, Rumba and Cha cha...with over almost 2 years of experience teaching and slightly more than 2 years of dancing. Now she got this London Official coaching cert... She is amazing la...

One thing for sure, her son knows at least 2 of the dance. hahaha, shall go for social dancing in her class when i go bac sg. One of my dreams, to take up dancing...at recreation level ONLY. =)

Those who are staying in the east, ur in luck, she teaches in majority of the East Community Centers, so can go there sign up, cheap and good.

If only her son can perfect all his exams in everything, then the world will be so wonderful.

Love you mum!!!

Saturday, September 23, 2006

~~~Happy Birthday my dearest PA~~~

gg out of mexico again tomorrow.

got a tix to catch some exciting highlights in san miguel. what is it abt i shan't say, will show u guys with picture.

but what i'm going to do is going to be very dangerous, but it is gonna be fun. this is something that i thot i can only experience it in europe, but i get to do it here, alright. so happening...

i will be going out tml, and then leaving for cuba on wed. so i haf like today, sunday, and monday to finish my mid term paper. which is almost impossible becoz i need to do research, but then again, all the researched materials have been borrowed out by KS students, so i will just need to do it MY WAY.

time to hit the books, if im not replying to emails and msn messages, is not because i'm too busy to reply. is definitely i'm not in town but i will fill u in abt my life once i get to the mail.

meanwhile, i'm still trying to get the address of all my friends. designing a database, anyone wants to help let me know. I'm getting married soon, i need the address of all my frenz.

k, hitting my books now.

I admit, I'm dirty

haha, was thinking about how much my mum used to scream at me to bathe whem i come home everytime in sg. Thinking abt how dirty I'm. Those were the days, now I have excuse to bathe only in the morning because the weather is cold here, and u do not sweat so much like in back home.

then last time when i was younger, i was like so particular abt cleanliness, and got veri lazie when i got older. i learnt from my good friends, kester and mark that jeans do not need to be washed. When i was young, i felt so bad that I did not wash my jeans for 2 weeks, until mark told me that he didn't wash it for 3 months and kester told me he didn't wash it for half a year. haha, and since then, i dun really like to wash my jeans, and i always tell my mum not to wash it. Because if u keep washing, it looks so new, jeans should have the rustic and rugged look den nice mah...hahaa

but got back into my cleanliness habit when i'm overseas. like hygiene needs to be maintain, can't affort to fall sick, coz no one to tke care of me here.

i still remb that so many times after flrball trging, i went bac home and fell asleep without bathing. is so disgusting, but like i mention b4, when i'm sleepy, nothing is gg to stop me from what i want to do in my sleep. even my mum cant do anything to me. hahaha.

those were the days.

Love makes you irrationale

Have been sleep typing in my busy busy busy entry. I know i sound kinda funny, but yeah, i do lotsa amazing things when im sleepy or sleeing, those who knows me knows it.

I was suddenly so intrigued by what alot of what my friends do for love.

One of my german friend in Mexico is going back to Italy in Nov during our long break to see her bf even though she will be back just before xmas in Dec.

Another of my friend because of love did so many things that make him look stupid and bad. Now he is like being bombarded by everyone.

I have friends who entered into the depression after falling out of relationships. Some of them took up smoking, some took up excessive drinking and some, just refused to moved on in life, holding back and waiting for something else to happen...

Well, to most people, all these seems rather irrationale, and I'm sure if these people were to look back and think about it, they will feel is irrationale too.

There are so many times that because of love u do so many irrantionale stuff, which is pretty amazing. Even the most clear headed person tends to fall for this when the situation arises.

Dun get me wrong, I'm not saying irrationale is bad, but what I'm trying to say is that sometimes love make u do things u never thought you could do. And with this love, it gives u confidence, or at least something to work towards too.

Irrationale is NOT a BAD thing. You cannot really pin point what is good and what is not. There are allwaiz two sides of a coin. But it is just amazing how much one can go in the name of LOVE~~~~

Just like more than a year ago, i was thinking about what does it means to me by doing the right kind of wrong. Someone told me before, that it is so wrong, but it feels so right. Up till now I'm still trying to figure out what does it mean by this.

haha, dun read too much into things la. I was thinking so much about it when i was lying sick in bed last year in the hospital in bangkok while watching coyote ugly. Then they got this song, the right kind of wrong.

Personally, I want to break up this quote into smaller parts. I figured that the WRONG is actually what the society deem as wrong, not wholly how I will think about it. And the RIGHT part, is something that you know that you will not have any regrets doing it. So I truly believe in the right kind of wrong... But first, u muz haf the guts to do it...

Alright, I'm still quite dumbstruck when my friend is actually going bac for one week when she is actually going bac the next month just to see the bf. That is so....to others, it is sweet, to me, it is a total waste of $$$.

And to my "friend" who is like causing so much of hell out there to so many people. I dun think u are reading this, bcoz i dun think u haf my blog lah, BUT one thing that I really believe that at your so call situation, the best thing to do is to let her go and move on with life lah. Just like the lyrics in Heaven Knows, "if u really love her, u gotta set her free, even when now she is gone, i will still carry on..."

And yes, BE A MAN.

Gosh, speaking about love, i just love everyone around me, even those who fails to be efficient in doing projects. hahaha. bcoz each and everyone of u complete the jigsaw in my life.

There are many many wonderful pple that I had, seems to disappear. Maybe they are just busy or maybe they enter the into the next chapter of their lives. But whatever is it, I wish all of u well, and just want to tell u that I miss u soo soo much. Muacks

Oh happy day...

Finally, after this busy week, at least now I have something to feel happy about. =)
Cuba here i come...

First time i book a flight less than a week in advance and i got all the seats to myself.

Booking for: XXXXXX
Booking record: YH28VX
Total amount: FREE
Flight Number: CU - 131
From: Mexico City - Int'l Airport Juarez (MEX), Mexico City,,Mexico
Date of Departure: 07.35 27 September 2006
To: Jose Marti Int'l (HAV), Havana,,Cuba
Date of Arrival: 11.05

Flight Number: CU - 130
From: Jose Marti Int'l (HAV), Havana,,Cuba
Date of Departure: 05.50 02 October 2006
To: Mexico City - Int'l Airport Juarez (MEX), Mexico City,,Mexico
Date of Arrival: 07.35

Your Credit Card debit has been accepted.

Friday, September 22, 2006

busy busy busy

Have been busy for the past few days, so busy that I have no time to even do my own stuff. And at the same time, down with a slight fever....last night only slept for 2 hours because of rushing my assignments.

The loss in time can be explained because of the increase in inefficiencies of my group mates who want to meet up for the slightest reasons, and discuss the most 'duh' stuffs. had enuff, and decieded that today i should start acting blur and not go for the meeting. it works.....

the reason why i have time now is because it is eating into my sleeping time. i have like an essay to rush this weekend and i'm gg out on sat. i think i'm giving a go for tml, want to stay at home to do up my mid term which is suppose to be due on friday. i'm leaving on wed-mon to Cuba.

reserved tixs but have yet to gotten any confirmation. hope everything is fine and i do finallie get to go. i really want to go. and the best part is...the initally much anticipated crowd fall out one by one, and i'm now traveling with this other guy which i think have a 80% of falling out. hahaha

people who likes to dreams and eventually dun work hard for it, will end up being a dreamer who is capable dreaming about dreams. people who work hard to make all things to happen for themselves are people live their dreams....

all tok and no action make u a NATO.

mum, having a major dance exam today. i know she is going to do well. but i feel sad coz i cant be there to witness it. but the gd news is that it will be recorded. yesh...

going to be a nerd for weekend to finish my assignment. need all the luck.

just for laughs
















Coup in Thailand

Was so caught up with work here that I have no time to know what is happening in Asia. But nonetheless, Thailand, a country that is close to my heart, which is like a natural 2nd home for me. hahaha....

This link gives a very good overview and commentary of the coup in Thailand. Let us pray for the coup to end asap k?

http://19sep.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Taking Notes Without a Computer: How Laptops Distract From Classroom Learning

Especially to people from my home uni...

Over the last few years, teaching has changed for me. In the past, I could see students' faces, engaged and interested in the material we covered, and occasionally -- perhaps more occasionally than I would care to admit - I felt I could command their undivided attention. It was a privilege to have a captive audience, and the electricity of the classroom motivated me to do my best to explain difficult concepts, while simultaneously offering stories and jokes for comic relief. Teaching felt like a cooperative enterprise between me and my students.

Recently, however, teaching had become a different sort of activity. The metamorphosis was subtle at first, so I did not take immediate note of it. But by degrees, I found people less attentive, more likely to respond "what?" or "can you repeat that?" when I called on them to answer a question, and less able to handle complex ideas than in the past. Students seemed more frustrated when we encountered difficult material, and I - as a result - came to feel frustrated as well.

At first, I attributed the change to my own failings. I assumed that I was becoming less interesting as I aged, or - more charitably - too demanding of my class, having come to take for granted what used to be the exciting novelty of teaching. If I was no longer as satisfied in the classroom as I used to be, I imagined, the fault lay squarely at my own feet.

In an effort to address my failings, I talked to colleagues at Rutgers and at other universities. I soon learned that I was not alone. Perhaps I was becoming a boring, old curmudgeon, but I was doing so in very good company. Then a Newark Star Ledger reporter asked if he could sit in on one of my criminal procedure classes.

The reporter explained that he was writing a story about web usage in the classroom and wondered if he could include my course in his study. I agreed to let him sit in for a day. In exchange, he promised to tell me after class how many of my own students were surfing. It had not occurred to me that people were cruising the Internet during class, so I was curious -- though also confident -- about what I would likely learn.

Blame It On the Web

At the end of the class, the reporter approached the podium and told me that I had a low rate of web-surfing, compared to what he had witnessed in other classes. Patting myself on the back, I asked "How low?" The answer: "About forty percent."

What? Had I heard right? Forty?! Almost half of my class was busy with other things while I was up in front of them teaching my heart out? I still recall our topic that day: We were discussing the use of torture in the interrogation of terrorists.

What could be interesting students more than that? As it turned out, according to the Star Ledger reporter, online shopping and instant-messaging friends were more interesting than that. But I should be happy, the reporter assured me - 60% of my students were not surfing!

The reporter's observations opened my eyes. I began to notice that people were often "elsewhere" while I conducted my class. Students sitting next to a "surfer" would aid me in my detective work, because their eyes would dart to their neighbor's screen.

In time, I became less kind when a student asked a question or made a point that had been asked or made earlier in the same session. "Yes, that is a good question/point," I would now say, "but Mr. Doe said the same thing earlier."

How Inattention Disrupts Active Listening: The Price Students Pay

Why should anyone care about my growing displeasure in the classroom? Isn't this my problem -- one that mirrors the problems of old people over the centuries who must learn to adjust to new technology and social norms? Perhaps it is. But that raises the question whether this particular technology and these social norms have a place in the classroom. Students apparently believed that they were learning as much as they needed to learn, even as they attended to several other tasks at the same time. But they were mistaken.

I have never liked talking with people who are multi-tasking. The typical line when a person objects to the multi-tasking interlocutor - and I have used this line myself - is to say "I'm listening. What I'm doing doesn't take any thought. Go ahead and say what you were going to say." I have offered this assurance in the past, when addressing envelopes or folding laundry while talking, and I believed it to be true at the time, but I am dubious now.

If I give my undivided attention to the person who is talking to me, I am much more likely to hear and fully understand what that person is saying. That is what people mean when they say of someone that he or she is a "good listener."

When I was in college, I volunteered at a campus hotline that fielded calls from 10PM to 3AM each night. People called with various complaints, some as serious as contemplating suicide, and others as seemingly trivial as wanting to talk to a neutral person about an argument with a friend. In training for peer counseling, we learned to "reflect back" what a person said - repeating the import of the caller's statements in our own - the listeners' - words.

I might say to a caller, for example, "It sounds like you feel betrayed by your friend's flirtation with your boyfriend." The repetition, my training emphasized, should not be verbatim, and it might include observations about the caller's tone of voice as well the substance of what he or she has said. The goal was to convey to the caller that we were paying close attention to his or her words. And if we got it wrong, the caller could correct us, by saying, for example, "No, I'm not angry. I'm just sad."

The reflection-back process - which struck many of us counselors as artificial, and even amusing, when we first encountered it - proved surprisingly challenging. It meant that we could not do anything else - indeed, could not let our thoughts stray, even for a moment - while listening to the caller, because we might miss something important and would then be unable to reflect back accurately what the caller had just said. The technique, moreover, turned out to be quite effective: Callers became comfortable talking with us about personal and even embarrassing things. And I learned a great deal from listening attentively to what my anonymous classmates had to say. I was always very tired after a hotline conversation (and not just because we went home at three o'clock in the morning).

I am not suggesting that the classroom is like either a hotline conversation or a chat between good friends. It would be most disruptive, for instance, if all of my 124 criminal procedure students raised their hands throughout my lecture to repeat back what I'd just said. But if an individual student is to master complex material, he or she should be paying close attention to the lecture and be capable - if asked - to repeat what the professor has said, in his or her own words. Surfing the web is entirely inconsistent with the level of attention that this would require.

Why Taking Notes by Hand Improves Learning

Some students will respond to this statement that "I write down every word you say, because I type so quickly, and therefore, I don't need to give you any more attention than I already do." But this response illustrates yet another problem with the use of laptops in the classroom - it facilitates transcription of every word, but that task is itself inconsistent with thinking about what a professor is saying while she is saying it.

When you take notes by hand, you are forced to digest what has been said and write down only a fraction of it. You are forced, in other words, to think while the class is in progress. It is what distinguishes a live lecture from a recorded one, after all. Listening means that you can understand the material, not just take it down like a stenographer. It also means that you can ask pertinent questions, answer professors' inquiries well, and listen intelligently to what classmates have to say.

Putting my money where my mouth is, I have instituted a virtual ban on laptops in my classroom this semester (virtual, because two students are allowed to use laptops on the condition that they share their notes with the rest of the class). This is the first time I have adopted such a policy, and many students - at least before the semester began - expressed unhappiness about it.

These students are used to taking notes on a laptop computer, and they believe that they do their best learning that way. They are, however, likely mistaken, in my opinion. I have already noticed a higher level of reasoning, after only two weeks of class under the virtual laptop ban, and I am optimistic that student performance throughout the semester will improve as well.

If you want a magic bullet for how to get more out of your law school class, here it is: Put the laptop computer away, and take out a pen. You might actually learn something.

Brave man jokes

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What's the definition of the bravest man in the world??

The man who comes home drunk, covered in lipstick and smelling of perfume, then slaps his wife on the backside and says: "You're next, fatty."

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Man walks into the bedroom with a sheep under his arm while his wife is lying in bed reading.

Man says: "This is the pig I have sex with when you've got a headache."

Wife replies: "I think you'll find that is a sheep."

Man replies: "I think you'll find I was talking to the sheep."

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A man walks into his bedroom and sees his wife packing a suitcase.

He asks, "What are you doing?"

She answers, "I'm moving to Sydney.

I heard prostitutes there get paid $400 for doing what I do for you for
free."

Later that night, on her way out, the wife walks into the bedroom and sees her husband packing his suitcase.

When she asks him where he's going, he replies, "I'm coming too, I want to see how you live on $800 a year".

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A woman was shopping at her local supermarket where she selected: 2 litres of low fat milk, a carton of eggs, 2 litres of orange juice, a head of lettuce, half a dozen tomatoes, a 500g jar of coffee, a 250g pack of bacon

As she was unloading her items on the conveyor belt to check out, a drunkard standing behind her watched as she placed the items in front of the cashier.

While the cashier was ringing up her purchases, the drunk calmly stated,"You must be single."

The woman was a bit startled by this proclamation, but she was intrigued by the derelict's intuition, since she was indeed single. She looked at her six items on the belt and saw nothing particularly unusual about her selections that could have tipped off the Drunk to her marital status.

Curiosity getting the better of her, she said, "Well, you know what, you're absolutely correct. But how on earth did you know that?"

The drunk replied, "Cos you're ugly."

Sin Despertar - Kudai

Sin Despertar Lyrics

Puedo ser tu sol, imaginate, que puedo volar y todo puedo ser, que sere tu luz y la briza que iluminanana y hasta el final.
Puedo navegar, puedo recorrer, puedo despegar en un anochecer, quiero todo ser y llevarte hasta la sima en sima.
Sin despertar ni bajar de esta estrella fugaz que es su luz vuelas tu, viajando en un cielo azul, sin dudar más hasta que este sueño acabe nena.
Yo se, que mañana no estare en la nada y que esta estrella no nos dejara jamás, y se que de noche sacare mi espada, iremos juntos hasta el más alla. De noche saldra la luna y las estrellas te abrazaran.
Sin depertar ni bajar de esta estrella fugaz que en su luz vuelas tu, viajando en un cielo azul. Sin dudar ni esperar solo hay tiempo para amar una vez y otra mas hasta que este sueño acabe nena.
Puedo ser tu sol, imaginate, que puedo volar y todo puedo ser, que sere tu luz y la briza que ilumina y hasta el final.
Puedo navegar, puedo recorrer, puedo despegar en un anochecer, quiero todo ser y llevarte hasta la sima en sima.
Sin despertar ni bajar de esta etrella fugaz que es su luz vuelas tu, viajando en un cielo azul. Sin dudar ni esperar solo hay tiempo para amar, una vez y otra más hasta que este sueño acabe nena.
Sin despertar, sin dudar, sin despertar, sin dudar.
Sin despertar ni bajar de esta estrella fugaz que es su luz vuelas tu, viajando en un cielo azul. Sin dudar ni esperar solo hay tiempo para amar, una vez y otra mas hasta que este sueño acabe nena.

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Translation for this song....

Without Waking Up Lyrics

I can be your sun, imaginate, that I can fly and everything I can be, that sere your light and the iluminanana briza that and until the end.
I can sail, I can cross, I can take off in a dusk, I want all being and llevarte until sima in sima.
Without waking up neither to lower of this fleeting star that is its light you fly your, traveling in a blue sky, without doubting the more until this dream finishes baby.
I, who tomorrow estare in the anything and which this star left us never, and that at night it will remove my sword, we will go together until the plus alla. At night saldra the moon and the stars embraced to you.
Without depertar nor lowering of this fleeting star that in its light you fly your, traveling in a blue sky. Without doubting nor hoping single is time to love once and other but until this dream finishes baby.
I can be your sun, imaginate, that I can fly and everything I can be, that sere your light and the briza that it illuminates and until the end.
I can sail, I can cross, I can take off in a dusk, I want all being and llevarte until sima in sima.
Without waking up nor lowering of this etrella fleeting that is its light you fly your, traveling in a blue sky. Without doubting neither to hope single there is time to love, once and another one the more until this dream finishes baby.
Without waking up, doubting, waking up, doubting.
Without waking up nor lowering of this fleeting star that is its light you fly your, traveling in a blue sky. Without doubting nor hoping single is time to love, once and other but until this dream finishes baby.

Xalapa, Vera Cruz

The past weekend was a really good one.

I met up with Bianca, an exchange student to Otago last semester with me, and we are neighbours in Toroa. And seeing her again bring about fresh memories about the dazes in NZ. I miss it so much...

This weekend make me realized so much more about live and many many other things....

Was rec'd by Bianac and her mum in the bus terminal late at nite, and they are so nice to put up with me having dinner once i arrive. =p
The house was like half an hour drive away from Xalapa (capital of Vera Cruz). She has two sisters, and her dad is seperated from her mum, so he is not staying with them and the brother is staying in Xalapa. So I am like the only guy in the whole house. =)
Friday, was the eve of Mexico's independence day. She brought me to see the waterfall and we tried one of the best fish in town. It is really very good, and we have some shots of their local alcohol. It can really kill man. :) Didn't really immerse into the celebrations but saw the of the celebrations at night.
Didn't really do much other than traveling round Xalapa and Vera Cruz for the weekends with Bianca and her sister, Teresita.

But what strike me is that her family is really warm and nice. I really feel very welcomed and there is a feeling of love all over the house. Not that other houses have none, but this one is juz very rich...

Her mum, sisters, bro n her is juz so nice. It makes me think twice about having the simplicity of life. Why are we chasing after so many stuff that we probably dun even need them....
The house was modest, thought is on a mountain, and u get to wake up to the meadows and the cows, but the life is so simple and everyone is just so happy to have each other.

I was thinking about so many things I want in life, like a big nice house, with cars, with lotsa n lotsa of money, but what can all this give me? At least these are not the things that I live for in this world....

Love and happiness is something money can't really buy, and i feel it so real over the weekend, and I am looking forward for more of it in the future. At least after this weekend, it gives me greater reason for not wanting to conform to the social norms. And of coz, more excuses to start work one year later. hahaha

Friday, September 15, 2006

my worst experience

Today had my presentation in my one and only English class turn out to be my worst presentation ever in my life. Gosh, i am totally ashamed of it man. Argh...

It all started off with a lousy group mate. I was paired with this girl from mexico, and at first I though, thank God I'm paired with a local and one who will be concern about getting the marks, but boy I was so wrong.

I emailed her like two weeks before our presentation, and she didn't reply to my mail. And it has to take my Prof to mail her like one week before the presentation then she replied and claim her email was spoil. How rubbish, can rec'd prof's but not mine. Then I asked her to do her part over the weekends when I have already done all the necessary write up. She just have to pass me the part and I will do the ppt on Monday.

I only got her part like on Wednesday, the day before the presentation. She is so rubbish. She does all the presentation which was crap, totally not answering the questions and she was telling me that she would get her friend who is a designer to do the ppt, in the end, i didn't know that I was the designer.

I asked her if she is going to cover the questions, she said that she will explain in her presentation which obviously she did not. She just read off her slides. It was so embarrasing. She took my part of the presentation when I have already rehearsed it like 10 times. And she made a mess out from it. Sigh...

At the end in my Prof's office, he said he should have already failed us for not answering the questions, but apparently he said that the presetation was very professional, a good touch with the video, the slides waas impressive and how the conclusion was done in such a natural way by using a picture to sum up the whole presentation.

And all these are done by ME. Even the picture is taken by me...argh, and she stands to get my credit too. In the end, he gave us a 8/10. I dun believe it man. This is so crap...

I'm like totally out of point, but because he thinks we put in lotsa effort and gave us marks for effort, this is so ridiculous.

But at least i stand to prove some of my friends who says content is more impt than packaging wrong. And yes, packaging can influence the desired results....=p

Wonderful meal

2 days ago, i had the meal of my life in Mexico. :)

It was the first time that I tried to ordered Mexican set meal.

First dish, it was the starter, a bowl of salsa potato soup....

Second dish, Mexican rice with a sunny side up....

Third dish, lamb chop cooked in Mexican style...

Free flow of agua and tortilia.

Great Value, Great Meal...

And is all for 35 pesos...

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

~~~Happy Birthday Charms~~~


Public Holidays 2007

Start planning your holidays now....

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New Year's Day
Monday*
1 January 2007

Chinese New Year
Sunday**
18 February 2007
Monday
19 February 2007

Good Friday
Friday
6 April 2007

Labour Day
Tuesday
1 May 2007

Vesak Day
Thursday
31 May 2007

National Day
Thursday
9 August 2007

Hari Raya Puasa
Saturday
13 October 2007

Deepavali
Thursday
8 November 2007

Hari Raya Haji
Thursday
20 December 2007

Christmas Day
Tuesday
25 December 2007

* The following Tuesday, 2 Jan 2007, will be a public holiday in view of the Hari Raya Haji on 31 Dec 2006 falling on a Sunday.
** The following Tuesday, 20 February 2007, will be a public holiday.

The date, 8 Nov 2007, for Deepavali needs to be checked against the Indian Almanacs when they become available towards the end of 2006. Should there be a change in date, the Ministry of Manpower will announce it towards the end of 2006.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Difference between men and women..

1. NAMES
If Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth and Barbara go out for lunch, they will call each other Laurie, Linda, Elizabeth and Barbara.

If Mark, Chris, Eric and Tom go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla, Peanut-Head and Scrappy.

2. EATING OUT
When the bill arrives, Mark, Chris, Eric and Tom will each throw in a $20 even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.

When the women get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.

3. MONEY
A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need, but it's on sale.

4. BATHROOMS
A man has five items in his bathroom: a toothbrush, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, and a towel from the Marriott.
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337. A man would not be able to identify most of these items.

5. ARGUMENTS
A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that... is the beginning of a new argument.

6. CATS
Women love cats.

Men say they love cats, but when women aren't looking, men kick cats.

7. FUTURE
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

8. SUCCESS
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

9. MARRIAGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does.

10. DRESSING UP
A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the garbage, answer the phone, read a book, and get the mail.

A man will dress up for weddings and funerals.

11. NATURAL
Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

12. OFFSPRING
Ah, children. A woman knows all about her children. She knows about dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favorite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.

A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house.

13. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Any married man should forget his mistakes.
There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

AND FINALLY....

A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word.
An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules, jackasses, and pigs, the husband asked sarcastically, "Relatives of yours?"

"Yep," the wife replied, "in-laws."

just for laughs

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oh no....

Today was quite fruitful I must say. Did lotsa stuff....

I signed up with the language department for spanish course, and I'm doing lotsa self-learning, hope this helps man. My immersion course the prof is teaching google level spanish, i dun even understand, felt that i wasted my time there. But the only reason why i'm gg is bcoz the whole class is made up of exchange students, and i can at least get to interact abit.

Then today, everyone is like asking me, so we heard ur going to Cuba, can I tag along? Then there is like so many people wanting to go with me. Is like, a mother duck bringing all these ducklings out. At first I thought I could enjoyed and relax my time in Cuba, now everyone wants to tag along. I told them is abt 300 plus USD, they tell me is expensive, now i tell them is 500USD inclusive of everything, they suddenly so onz. damn sianz. if they were to calculate, the amt is actually inflated, but they r thinking is a betta deal. argh...

I have no trouble going with a few guys, but now is like half the class want to go with me, and the problem is they ask me to change the date bcoz of them, i think they r reallie inconsiderate lor. tag along, stil want me to accomodate them...argh....

But im speculating that they are merely saying instead of really wanting to do. So lets wait and see in the next week...

Planning for Vera Cruz this weekend, going to meet up with Bianca (yo amiga de NZ). Long weekend, Thurs-Mon. woohoo....now u noe why last weekend I was recharging. hahaha.

So this week will be a busy week for me, have two presentations on Thursday and I'm going to start doing ppt for one now. Thinking if I should spoil market, and I have decided, yes, im going to spoil the entire market. Since i'm the 2nd group to present, there are like 6 more after me, will make them work even harder. hahaha....

Monday, September 11, 2006

Man looks in the abyss, there's nothing staring back at him. At that moment, man finds his character. And that is what keeps him out of the abyss.

Being Twenty something....

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely
know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is
acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling onto the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because youknow that you aren't a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.

You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself.....and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.

We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

I need these songs....

Ms Grumpy...

Being the very very nice person you are....

I need another few songs....

Here it is.....

Only when you are free to do so....

Muchas Gracias....

Song-Artise
SIN DESPERTAR-KUDAI
ROSA PASTEL-BELANOVA
NI UNA SOLA PALABRA-PAULINA RUBIO
¿QUÉ HAGO YO?-HA*ASH
J'ai Pas Vingt Ans-Alizée
Et rire de plaisir-Alizee
la isla bonita-Alizee
J'en Ai Marre!-Alizee
Moi...Lolita-Alizee
I'm Not Twenty!-Alizee
Toc De Mac-Alizee
Youpidou-Alizee

Mellow Weekend

Had class on Sat, can you believe it? Did something that you will never expect me to do, and that I attended the class, even though almost all the exchange students skipped the class. hahaha.

I decided that this weekend I shouldn't do anything much and just relax at home with the company of my Movies and trusty laptop for my internet connection is back. Plus, I'm feeling lazieeeeeeeeeee, very very lazieeeeeeee.

I rejected my friends to go party on Thurs, Fri and Sat because I'm too lazie to get out of the house, but I think feeling lazie is more like an excuse, the real reason is that I finally got some time to reflect and relax.

I cleared many backlogs, did a careful reading up on jobs, so at least I know what to expect in the future, planning for my trip to LA, and yes, I have confirm flying to LA on the 14th Dec and my last day of exams is on the 29th Nov, how good rite?

I was feeling so sianz yest while clearing my stuff, so I decided to take a walk around my area, and I feasted on 3pesos tacos, I took 5. hahaha, so greedy and sinful, but I like.

Got 2 of my term papers approved, so I guess I'm gonna start working on it so I can enjoy later. Can you believe it, I just have to do a 15 page term paper for one module without going to any classes at all, how cool.

I have a chance of catching up with many friends over MSN and friendster. To friends around my age, the first question I ask is are you married? hahaha, because girls around my age are old enuff to get married what, shldn't wait until too old. =p Speaking about conforming to social standards aye?? hahaha...

And is a good catching up with many people. I found so many of friends, and I'm happy that I did. Is allwaiz gd to catch up where u stop with them.

Talked to some of my friends whom I did exchange with in NZ, they were telling me how much they miss NZ and I wondered how come I dun feel like them YET. hahaha, maybe is because I'm still on exchange, and there is like so many things that I stil want to do. I think I will start to miss the place when I get back to Singapore, just like how much I will miss Mexico too. But I guess this always happen in the course of your life. You defnitely have to part in so many different phases. But fate allwaiz has its way of getting u bac to where u originally were, and frenz do come bac if fate allows and of coz, efforts do matter. :)

Some of my friends commented that I'm truly lucky to be able to travel around, and I do agree with them to a very large extend. haha, lucky anot, is really not up for me to say, but I'm truly contented with all these, and I will never take it for granted. Den again, some of my frenz who are far more well off then me are telling me that they can't b like me bcoz they dun haf the money. Cum'on man, u tink $$$ fall dwn frm sky for me meh. If u want to do something, juz work for it la, not that I'm born with a silver spoon, and trust me that my traveling is really budget. Sometimes saving a few cents can go a long way. $$$ is definitely a problem, but it shouldnt be a barrier for u. ;) Thank God for his blessings and I will take lotsa lotsa pics for all of u.

Someone commented that this blog is full of Thanks...hahaha. I think alot of times we ask for too many things, want too many things, never satisfied, and Thanking is something that we dun usually do it by the virtue of our nature, and it is oso nt veri singaporean to go ard thanking pple, even though when someone passes u sumting u say thk u. ur brought up to say 10q more so that u reallie meant it. hahaha. opps, i hpe im nt saving it wrongly. But i juz love thanking pple, it makes not only them feel good, but I also feel good too. and yes, give thanks everyday and u will be the happiest person ard.

One of my NZ-exchange fren is sending me love pack from HK, but it will only arrive in Oct, 2months? hahaha, but is the thot that counts, Asian food, gosh, I miss it so much. The only asian food I see here is sushi, and I dun understand how come they like it so much. Not that I dun like, but, it reminds me of the Sakae sushi student buffet from 3-6pm weekdays. gosh...I'm missing it already. I remb those days that I can't eat meat on fridays, and sakea is always a gd place to hit on those days. :)

And finally got a chance to abstained from meat this friday bcoz I nv go out. Practically all the dishes here in mexico has MEAT, and I allwaiz abstained when I'm at home for the whole day. Is hard, but it is not impossible.

Went to mass today, have been going for weeks, except forlast week bcoz i'm not in town. The mass is in spanish, the congregation is so small, but yet I can fill the warm and the spirit so much more. The hymns every week is the same, but I can sense that the people there are allwaiz looking forward for the hymns. :) I'm currently learning how to say grace b4 meal in spanish, it is quite cool. :)

In Catholism, we can ask for gifts such as tongues...when I was walking back today, I was thinking how marvellous it will be if suddenly one day I wake up and I can start to speak spanish. hahaha, that will be like a dream or wish like in Bedazzled. hahaha, of coz, having a spanish babe beside me when I wake up would too be a bonus. =p

Got a call from Singapore thru the best voice p2p system Skype. Was nice to hear a fellow singaporean. Every conversation I have on skype always seems so much more meaningful then when I chat with people on the phone in SG. =p

I'm getting quite sianz, coz i cannot find a post office, and i was told that there are lotsa post offices but are not really accessible. And I know I shldn't take things for granted what I have at home. =(

I'm at the verge of finish sorting out my mp3. And my ipod speakers is waiting for me at home. Woo hoo.....

I love emails, when ur free, do drop me a mail, even if it is a hi. =)

Societal Standards

Had a pretty interesting discussion with two of my friends who graduated recently on different occasions. We were on the topic on how companies perform a selection on individuals. I took different sides on each discussions.

With friend A:
How does the company choose the right kind of people? Does the quality of the paper really matter? I asked how does the company know if they are choosing the smart people but not muggers. Then A said that the cut off is for all the smart people, then from the smart people, then they will measure EQ, CQ and whatever qualities that matters.

Den I ask how cum they cannot select base on EQ, CQ and etc and then the next cut will be the paper? He told me it will be easier to do it using the 'paper' cutting off method first because it is a niche pool. True, but isn't people with other attributes also formed the niche pool?

Company also potray themselves that they do not want good employees who are only paper smart, but also must be all rounder. Then the funny thing is that 'paper' smartness is already a pre-requisite before the assess other attributes. Sad but true.

Even though A argued so much for what the company is doing is the right way, but he felt that it is not the fair way. =p

With friend B:
She was really pessismistic abt her job, and kept saying that her 2nd lower is as gd as a 3rd class. She say without a 2nd upper, it is so hard to find a good job (define by a gd paying one). And then I told her, why must a company recruit a 2nd lower when they have 2nd upper in consideration. Then she say the whole system was screwed up, what u study doesn't even apply to what you work, yet you base so much on it. I agree, but then, how is the company gonna find people and what are they going to base on then? So paper qualifications will be a good gauge.

Having said that, it is a good gauge, but not necessary a fair or the best gauge. She was telling me that she like this other company because they rejected her application but called up her friend who has a 3rd class. Solely because she claims that this company does not look at grades, which I think is pretty interesting.

Graduation is 7 months away and I'm starting to feel that I'm not ready to work. Even though, I have already been working for like 3 years plus but this feeling is totally different.

I suddenly feel so inadequate, maybe because I think I'm still not in the mood to start working. hahaha. But while I was browsing through all the job titles, I dun even know what will the job scope be like. Quite funny feeling.

I'm not afraid of interviews, infact, I want as many interviews as possible, but I'm quite afraid of becoming part of the society's expectations and start doing the unhealthy norms. It sux.

Though I must admit that I'm not cut out to study, and I dun really like to study, I enjoy school almost everytime. =p So much time to do so many things. And there is like no competitions...the only challenge you have is YOURSELF, seriously, I can't be bothered to prove myself in the academic area. And I'm thankful that it is finally coming to an end. So much of saying how much I hate studying, BUT one thing that I must agree is that knowledge is power, and I love to be submerged into pursuing knowledge in any other ways, other than putting me in an exam or a grade to it. =p

Friday, September 08, 2006

Boys need girls

Once again, there are so many things I can blog about my politics class. But this one draws a very good example of what i allwaiz feel. Duncan(my prof) was asking what is the societal norm, one guy answered: "like opening doors for the ladies..." then Duncan say:"what? you should not only open it for ladies, for men too!!! treat not only ladies with respect but also the same species."

To which I would like to bring out something that I feel strongly. I have like many guy frenz who only does favours for girls or only treat girls very nice or only choose to do certain things for girls ONLY. And I also met guys who act blur when paying when with guys but quickly offer to pay when they are with girls. This is like so... simply dividing the class so clearly. And they are the guys who are only girls-centered. How come they can't treat the guys the same way they treat the girls?

other than the girls being the weaker sex(just joking, pls dun b offended =p), or they have something else that guys doesn't. Seriously, I think i really despise those guys who only nice to girls and heck the guys, because it really speaks volume about them in the what they treat people.

And yes, what Duncan say today is really so true, dun do it only for the girls, do it for all humans and do it with respect. Is it him or are all english pple so gentle and nice. :)

Facts on my favourite food - The Power of a Potato

POTATO NUTRITION FACTS
Potatoes are an excellent source of carbohydrates, the body's best energy source. There are two types of carbohydrates: simple carbohydrates found in refined sugar, candy bars and most refined products to provide a quick burst of energy quickly as well as deplete energy quickly and complex carbohydrates (as in potatoes) release their energy slowly, keep the blood sugar level steadier and longer, the body's best source of energy on a long term basis. Potatoes are high in fiber aiding the digestive system and they absorb water which makes one feel satisfied and less hungry. Potatoes are fat free, cholesterol free, sodium free and saturated fat free. They are high in Vitamin C and potassium and are a great source of Vitamin B6 and dietary fiber.

A single serving of a potato will provide a person with 40% of the daily value needed of vitamin C; this will help keep the body from bruising easily. Also, the potato will give you 20% of the potassium needed for your body each day; it is a needed element for everyone especially athletes- it helps stabilize the body when it is being over worked.

The USDA approved nutritional panel mentions that the potato will provide 6% of iron; this element allows blood and oxygen to attach together. The lack of iron in a diet will cause a person to be more tired than usual no matter how much sleep you get. 40% of the potato provides vitamin C; it helps us reduce the risk of our body from getting bruised.

POTATO TRIVIA
* Every American consumes about 126 pounds of potatoes yearly = 1 potato per day.
* In October 1995, the potato was the first vegetable to be grown in space.
* Believe it or not:
~ Potatoes are more nutritious when eaten with the skin on.
~ Potatoes were the first vegetable grown in space in 1995.
~ Europeans consume twice as many potatoes as Americans per year.
~ Potatoes are second only to milk as the most consumed food in America.
~ Treat facial blemishes by washing your face daily with cool potato juice.
~ Treat frostbite or sunburn by applying raw grated potato to the affected area.
~ Treat a toothache by carrying a potato in your pocket.
~ Treat a sore throat by placing a slice of baked potato in a stocking and applying to the throat.
~ Treat aches and pains by rubbing boiled potato water (cooled) to the affected area.

And on the record, do you know that Ireland population decrease from 8million to 1million people in the 17th century because a potato famine, go check out about it. The power of Potato



Internet down for 2 days

My internet was down for 2 days, and life without internet is suppose to be good, then we will not be living in the world artificially right? But hell no, all my skol work are in the internet, and i'm completely stuck coz i can't study. argh.... and I felt so sianz diaoz.

anyway, my comp has very bad wireless signal for like 2 weeks and they call the person to cum and take a look, even up till now, still no news. and it takes the company 2 days to repair the internet, argh, and i am needed to re-prog everything again myself. that is so stupid and inefficient.

But one thing here that is really good is that claudia and her family have been taking really good care of me. I feel so much loved when I'm with them. kudos to Clau + fam.

Puebla and Cholula

Last weekend, the six of us travel to Puebla known for its 'mole' (pronouced as mole leh). This trip was near perfect. The destination is perfect, but the company....

Well, I never like to travel in a big group, but well, in the name of fun + these pple noe poco espanol + most are europeans so i expected a certain degree of seasoned traveling habits. At las....

I will speak about the good things first, and i dunno why, but I find myself lately going into bitching mood...

Puebla is very well preserved, and it looks so colonia, the feel is more like Europe than anything else. Not that I have been to Europe, but is just the feel. The church has the marvellous architecture, absouletly mesmerizing and it made me feel so proud being a catholic. And to date, I have already visited more than 10 churches, and all are impressive in their different ways.

I tried one of the best Tacos here, it is filled with Beef, potatoes and Chill. And it was so nice, that I have no choice but to go for a 2nd one. Larinda from NZ heeded my advice and tried, unfortunately, different people have different tolerence to the Spicyness of it, obviously she did not enjoyed it as much as I do. =p

Went to watch a cultural play b4 nitefall, and it was quite cool, because they were displaying traditional mexican dance and modern dance. It just inspired me to want to continue my ballroom lesson even more.

Thanks to my friend's boyfriend's friend who stays in cholula, we get free accomodation for the night. My friend from poland got herself a mexican boyfriend, this is so crazie...haha. Not that I have not seen such things in NZ.

The next day we went to visit the pyramid, the widest pyramid in the world. It was covered with grass and has a church built on top of it. It was amazing. My friend from the states was asking me how come people dun wanna get rid of the grass. Err, i dunno how to answer her, but I think it is best preserved for how it is, and I believe when people discovered this, it already filled with grass.
Then we went around the town, and shop in their 'market' and visit one of the monastry which is a church inside and looks like a castle outside. It is really nice. :)

Ok, now for the bitching part....

2 girls complaint that their bag ( for a 2 days trip) is heavy and need to deposit somewhere b4 we moved on, so we spent like 2 hours searching for hotels to deposit, but unfortunately, nothing is for free here. And we wasted 2 hours for nothing.

Then, one girl got lost, and if I didn't do a head count like after 50m from where we lost her, nobody even realized. We only manage to find her like half an hour later, because she did not have a mobile.

Then, they refuse to eat road side food, bcoz they r afraid of tummy aches, and constantly need to visit good cafes for afternoon coffee. Their logic of knowing which store is good is by seeing if the queue is long. How bimbotic...

Lastly, they couldn't decide on taking a bus which cost 58pesos, 52pesos and 40pesos. They refused to choose the cheapest one because they think the tyres will give way from the bus half way. and they say is not the first class, so dun take, argh, it is only a 2hours ride, why are you considering so many factors. tsk tsk.

But one good take away is that, whatever that does not break me, only will make me grow stronger, and yes more tolerent. =p

Anthropology Museum and Mexico's Castle

Last friday, took a visit to the Anthropology Museum, no wonder is a world's heritage. Very impressive I must say. Spend like 4 hours but only manage to finish like 2 exhibition halls, planning to go back another day to finish the rest. The Mayan and the Aztec are really interesting.

Then, we went over to the old spanish castle, the one that the 'king' stayed before the Mexican Revolution. And guess what, I only can complete seeing like half the castle, because the rest of the people are tired, so we have to head back. It was really sucky though, because we have to walk down the hill (the castle is on top of the hill) and in the rain...argh.





But one thing is for sure, it is definitely worth the walk. The garden is on the 2nd storey of the castle, it is so nice. I want my house to be like this the next time...i really dun feel like leaving the castle. Man, sometime soon, i will go back for a 2nd visit.

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Singapore true ghost stories

Ghost Story #1

When I was young, I lived in a deserted kampong deep in the jungle. Every night, my mother would ask me not to go home too late as there won't be any transportation after a certain time.

One night, before going home, I ta pao kueh teow soup for supper. I was late and I waited for the taxi/bus but there was none. I was getting worried as the night was getting darker and darker. So I tried to flag down private vehicles to take me home.
There was no one stopping for me, till one motorcyclist took pity on me and stopped to give me a lift. He was a man with a kind face. I accepted his offer and got onto his motorbike.

On the way home, we would pass by a temple. At night, the temple would look erily spooky with the dim lights from the candles. At first, the motorcyclist was warm and friendly. When the temple was approaching, the motorcyclist eyes grown bigger and bigger. His kind face turned to a face of anger. He was muttering something loud but was not audible to me. I was so scared that I closed my eyes in order not to see his angry face.

Then, the motorcylist stopped in front of the temple and then yelled at me.

"Your kueh teow soup is so hot!! It is burning my thigh! Can you please move it away???"

Ghost Story #2

When I was young, I have two friends who were very close to each other. They played with each other everyday. It was like, if you see A, you would see B next to him. They were always together.

A loved fried eggs. Whenever he went out for lunch or dinner , without fail, he would ask for fried egg on top of his noodles, fried rice, etc. One day, A involved in an accident and died. B was devastated. B went to the cemetery to pray everyday.

He would go to the nearest restaurant and ta pao a box of fried rice with an egg on top to be offered to A when he went to pray to him.

The next day, he opened the box and there was no egg inside! B was petrified. He thought, must be A who came and took the fried egg away.

The same thing happened the next day and the day after that. B was confused. So, one day, he asked the chef to make the same fried rice with a fried egg again. Then, he went to the cemetery to offer it to A.

Curious, he opened the box to check for the egg. He was angry to find that, there was no fried egg in the box after all. Feeling that he had been cheated, he went back to the restaurant and demanded to see the Chef. "Where is the fried egg?? I told you there must be a fried egg inside!! You have cheated me for a few days now! Gimme back my money!!"

Then, the Chef got really angry and opened the box - the fried egg was inside the box. The Chef said, "Stupid! You open the box upside down. No wonder you cannot see the egg!!"

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Friends give unconditionally

I am really blessed with many many good friends. But there is this one friend that I want to thank, especially during the recent 'hard' times.

Well, I got to know this friend like 2 years ago, probably it is just hi-bye kinda fren more than anything else. Recently got to ACTUALLY talk to him, and was quite amazed by how fast the friendship blossomed. At least it beats the long long frenz of mine....(hint for u guys to buck up =p)

What he did actually really touched my heart, though i did not exactly share with him how i feel, but I'm reallie touched. He knows how exasperated I'm for being like the only weird spiece in this country and have trouble speaking spanish, so he introduced one of his fren who is from taiwan who is in mexico to help me ard. thats like kwel...finally another asian near me.

Then he learn that I will travel in Japan alone, and knowing that there will be another language barrier, though I didnt really thought abt it, he linked me up with his fren in Tokyo to show me ard. I mean all these r favours that I did not even ask for, and were offered so willingly and is done almost immediate. Gosh, i wish more pple are like him. :)

But, u guys being my friends are special in your own ways, i truly appreciate each and everyone of you. The reason for our meeting is not by chance, and we have to treasure what we have b4 we lost it. Just want to say a big thank you to that special someone for offering a helping hand. Thank you so much. And to all my frenz out there, I love you guys too~~~

Mi Credo - K-Paz de la Sierra

Was fascinated by this song in Mexico. This song is quite a craze too.... Enjoy



(oye nomas y echale k-paz)
Por donde vayas ire
Con una benda en los ojos
Lo que decidas hare
El amor cuando es verdad es uno solo
No me preguntes por que eh sido bueno contigo
Solo se que eres mi religion
Que me importa si le llaman fanatismo

Choro
Sin ti yo no soy el mismo eres mi credo pedazo de cielo
Abrasame fuerte
Mi trebol de buena suerte
Prefiero morir junto a ti
Al no verte

(Oye mija por donde quiera que vayas ire con una benda en los ojos
Por que te amo te amo te amo K -paz De La Sierra)

No me preguntes por que eh sido bueno contigo
Solo se que eres mi religion
Que me importa si le llaman fanatismo

ChoroX2
Sin ti yo no soy el mismo eres mi credo pedazo de cielo
Abrasama fuerte
Mi trebol de buena suerte
Prefiero morir junto ati
Al no verte

Tribute to the Croc Hunter

Stingray Kills Famed 'Crocodile Hunter'

CAIRNS, Australia (AP) -- Steve Irwin, the hugely popular Australian television personality and conservationist known as the "Crocodile Hunter," was killed Monday by a stingray while filming off the Great Barrier Reef. He was 44.

Irwin was at Batt Reef, off the remote coast of northeastern Queensland state, shooting a segment for a series called "Ocean's Deadliest" when he swam too close to one of the animals, which have a poisonous barb on their tails, his friend and colleague John Stainton said.

"He came on top of the stingray and the stingray's barb went up and into his chest and put a hole into his heart," said Stainton, who was on board Irwin's boat at the time.

Crew members aboard the boat, Croc One, called emergency services in the nearest city, Cairns, and administered CPR as they rushed the boat to nearby Low Isle to meet a rescue helicopter. Medical staff pronounced Irwin dead when they arrived a short time later, Stainton said.

Irwin was famous for his enthusiasm for wildlife and his catchword "Crikey!" in his television program "Crocodile Hunter." First broadcast in Australia in 1992, the program was picked up by the Discovery network, catapulting Irwin to international celebrity.

He rode his image into a feature film, 2002's "The Crocodile Hunters: Collision Course" and developed the wildlife park that his parents opened, Australia Zoo, into a major tourist attraction.

"The world has lost a great wildlife icon, a passionate conservationist and one of the proudest dads on the planet," Stainton told reporters in Cairns. "He died doing what he loved best and left this world in a happy and peaceful state of mind. He would have said, 'Crocs Rule!'"

Prime Minister John Howard, who hand-picked Irwin to attend a gala barbecue to honor President Bush when he visited in 2003, said he was "shocked and distressed at Steve Irwin's sudden, untimely and freakish death."

"It's a huge loss to Australia," Howard told reporters. "He was a wonderful character. He was a passionate environmentalist. He brought joy and entertainment and excitement to millions of people."

Irwin, who made a trademark of hovering dangerously close to untethered crocodiles and leaping on their backs, spoke in rapid-fire bursts with a thick Australian accent and was almost never seen without his uniform of khaki shorts and shirt and heavy boots.

Wild animal expert Jack Hanna, who frequently appears on TV with his subjects, offered praise for Irwin.

"Steve was one of these guys, we thought of him as invincible," Hanna, director emeritus of the Columbus (Ohio) Zoo and Aquarium, told ABC's "Good Morning America" Monday.

"The guy was incredible. His knowledge was incredible," Hanna said. "Some people that are doing this stuff are actors and that type of thing, but Steve was truly a zoologist, so to speak, a person who knew what he was doing. Yes, he did things a lot of people wouldn't do. I think he knew what he was doing."

Irwin's ebullience was infectious and Australian officials sought him out for photo opportunities and to promote Australia internationally.

His public image was dented, however, in 2004 when he caused an uproar by holding his infant son in one arm while feeding large crocodiles inside a zoo pen. Irwin claimed at the time there was no danger to the child, and authorities declined to charge Irwin with violating safety regulations.

Later that year, he was accused of getting too close to penguins, a seal and humpback whales in Antarctica while making a documentary. Irwin denied any wrongdoing, and an Australian Environment Department investigation recommended no action be taken against him.

Stingrays have a serrated, toxin-loaded barb, or spine, on the top of their tail. The barb, which can be up to 10 inches long, flexes if a ray is frightened. Stings usually occur to people when they step on or swim too close to a ray and can be excruciatingly painful but are rarely fatal, said University of Queensland marine neuroscientist Shaun Collin.

Collin said he suspected Irwin died because the barb pierced under his ribcage and directly into his heart.

"It was extraordinarily bad luck. It's not easy to get spined by a stingray and to be killed by one is very rare," Collin said.

News of Irwin's death spread quickly, and tributes flowed from all quarters of society.

At Australia Zoo at Beerwah, south Queensland, floral tributes were dropped at the entrance, where a huge fake crocodile gapes. Drivers honked their horns as they passed.

"Steve, from all God's creatures, thank you. Rest in peace," was written on a card with a bouquet of native flowers.

"We're all very shocked. I don't know what the zoo will do without him. He's done so much for us, the environment and it's a big loss," said Paula Kelly, a local resident and volunteer at the zoo, after dropping off a wreath at the gate.

Stainton said Irwin's American-born wife Terri, from Eugene, Ore., had been informed of his death, and had told their daughter Bindi Sue, 8, and son Bob, who will turn 3 in December.

The couple met when she went on vacation in Australia in 1991 and visited Irwin's Australia Zoo; they were married six months later. Sometimes referred to as the "Crocodile Huntress," she costarred on her husband's television show and in his 2002 movie.

~~~Happy Birthday Teresa~~~


~~~Happy Birthday Davina~~~


Saturday, September 02, 2006

even the best falls down sometimes...

gone are the days when I thought I made a wrong move in coming to mexico. That was like the initial few weeks here. Because I cannot travel much, language barrier and all the stupid cock up in the school.

Finally, I have risen above all adversity. But seriously, i was damn pissed in the beginning, I really expected more from this exchange, then my first impression brought me to shambles. Now, I feel kinda relieve. The same old feeling of enjoying the fruits of making something happen. There will never be a day where things are run by Adam Smith's invisible hand theory la, u have to fight for everything that you want. Nothing just comes to u by coincidence or by chance...NEVER.

Reasons why I was damn down initially...
...only got to spend such small amt of time at home
...only get to meet so few people
...leaving my love ones behind
...missing chinese food BADLY
...4 out of 5 lessons are in spanish, even my basic spanish is taught in spanish
...school here starts 1 week earlier and end 1 week later than home uni
...bad security, can't travel alone

why i'm abv the moon now...
...I noe i will b bac home to sg juz b4 2007
...I emailed and chat with those pple that I did nt have chance to meet
...knowing that my love ones still care for me and talk to me
...friend from hk sent me emergency ration (expecting more thou)
...spanish is improving, but I have to put in 3 times more effort than normal students
...I got all my profs to allow me to end my exams b4 29th Nov
...I'm traveling tml to Puebla, and I planned so much more traveling in the weeks to come
...today I'm convinced that I will go to Guantemala and Blisez and Cuba and USA and Japan
...once again, I have made things better for myself

Even the best falls down sometimes, so why can't people like me be allowed to fall? And falling gives u a reason for wanting to pick yourself up and make things even better than how it was initially. The only time u fail is when u choose to remain there when u fall.

Like I recently mention, I read in some articles that there is a study done that people wants to feel bad. I find it so strange that there are people are there who yearns to be confused, sad, stress and disappointed. It is self-inflicted mechanism. So that from this feeling, they can feel betta? Sound kinda chiem, to feel bad first b4 u feel good. Though I'm not like a strong supporter of this, but i reckoned that it is a good way for morale boasting and changing moods.

But if you are genuinely feeling down, as much as people can help you out to feel better, the ultimate response to it can only be determined by ONLY yourself. U are the governer of your own feelings, it is so amazing if u learn to control all this... And yes, have turst and have faith in yourself. :)

Friday, September 01, 2006

Friendster

Just a few days ago, I got a message in friendster. I thought it was something out of date already, never expected to see anything from there. The last time I ever touch my friendster is in 2003.

My friend was telling me that I have a long list of friends, 483. I think there are still alot more people that I did not add then because of the 500 pax cap. Anyway, i took the chance to see the pics of all my friends, and checking out how have they been. Generally, I find every guy and girl becoming more mature and attractive, which is good. And so many people are already working, I'm the only guy who is left from my JC class who is still studying...argh...

I also took the chance to update my friendster and pumped in the pictures that was not updated for the last 3 years. I also messaged most of my friends to get their contact details. I spend like 6 hours yesterday and 2 hours today to do it. Finally done, and added some other friends to make up the 17 to cap the total number. hahaha.

I got this personal secretary online who helps me to organise bdays and addresses, so that is why I will allwaiz remb pple's bdae as long as I have a computer with me. Then again, I'm so afraid of the prog giving up on me, I write all my friends' bdae down in my organiser, and it is so funnie, because the whole year planner is filled up with names.

And I think for someone with so many friends ( i dun even noe some consider me as one anot), i think the least i could do is to wish them happie bdae in that yr. Given that I have 365 days, is almost impossible to meet my more than 500 friends, but i will strive to work on it man. Nothing is impossible, there is always time for EVERYTHING...=p

I went on to read my testies, for a reason or two, i lost half of my testies and some of my friends are out of friendsters, i dunno y too. But as i was reading those testies(sounds like testicles, no uh, is testimonies), it really drew bac lotsa sweet memories with so mani different indivduals. And i was thinking if some of them who know me then of what they know me now, would they have written the same. *shrugs* I think thats all for my friendster account, there is like no other things to upgrade to already. Unless of coz they lift the limit. haha.

Speaking about testies, I've got like 5 autograph books, which I was thinking of getting it filled up by those in schools, but so many have already left, and i do not know if my friends will still be there when i go back. Autograph book from sec skol to jc 1st 3mths, to jc, to army, to sif, to exchange and i hpe i can get alot alot more. doesnt matter if pple write bad things, just something to remb for time to come. Man, i'm such a SNAG. =p

Alright, make things easier for me, those who are reading this entry, simply type your address and contact number and send it to my gmail for updating of contacts. So that next time when I get married, i dun have to call u guys up to ask for ya address, very ma fan...hahaha :)

This korean guy is really good