loving u

i never thot loving would be that difficult, but it really is. How do u even love somebody? how can i treat someone more special than another. i juz like everybody juz the same. super dilenma. this is love distribution at its best.

Brothers

Last two weeks of weddings, being brothers for all my gd friends was damn fun. hahaha.

victor's wedding was totally alternative and i simply love it.
alan's wedding was in jb, and is totally different from sg's wedding.

wishing both of u a great journey ahead. :)

and for now, i'm off to another wedding (my 7th this month).

why u can sleep soundly for the next 2.5 weeks

i juz finished packing my bag to go into camp tomorrow. and yes, for the next 2 weeks, if u are sleeping soundly, no terrorist attack and feel a sense of peacefulness n calm, is bcoz of US who are going back to reservist!!!

actually, i kinda love going back to camp very much. i mean other than the few days of planning, the rest are quite good interaction with old mates. unfortunately, this is the last in camp for many.

i would like to take this time to remember my buddy in leader course who has gone before us. I pray that wherever he is, I know he is definitely in a better place.

Blogging

the purpose of this blog shares my personal experiences and thoughts about certain topics or subjects. It does not in any way represent my feelings at any point of time. I have seen too many people being virtually raped, as if they are totally naked by revealing too much of their feelings on blogs.

What good is a blog if you just talk about general stuff? I choose to prevent my state of mind being rape. To really know my thoughts, do drop me a call and we can discuss greater in depth.

morning air

I just love being a morning person thou I know many of u will not believe. But is true... The smell of the morning air and the calm and peace on the streets. Awwwww...

I am now looking forward for the evening air and strong breeze. :)

I have fallen for you....over and over and over again!!!

Kim Ah-Joong

One Moment

Visited Novena today and was told that in life, we cared so much about the past, the present and the future, but all these in God's eye, it is just One Moment. So apt, and so true. Our lives is an aggregation of that one final judgement on the final day.

So there fore, start living in the NOW!!!

"There is only one Mr. Right"

Many films that come out of Hollywood follow the storyline of a hopeless woman in love looking for her Mr. Right, which is a good message, but only if the moral or underlying theme is ‘don’t settle’.

There are a lot of Mr. Rights that are out there for a person, and some are going to be more attractive in terms of the package that they have to offer in comparison to others.

It is damaging to have the idea that there is only one person out there as you end up having unrealistic and perfectionist standards and ideals which are uncompromising.

Commuting

It has been a long time since I last commuted.

The sight of busy sidewalks, unintentional evasdroping of senseless conversation of the youth and how people just squeezed on the trains makes me feel so at home.

Decided to reduce my carbon foot-print this year, and commit myself to more purposeful walks from point A to point B.

Sight

This little black dot that appears in my vision is making me wonder if my gift of sight is coming to an end. I shouldn't speculate, but I do feel thankful for this gift.

These quotes were taken from actual Federal (US) employee performance

“Since my last report, this employee has reached rock bottom and has started to dig.”

“His men would follow him anywhere, but only out of morbid curiosity”

“I would not allow this employee to breed”

“This employee is really not so much of a has-been, but more of a definite won’t be”

“Works well when under constant supervision and cornered like a rat in a trap”

“When she opens her mouth, it seems that it is only to change feet”

“He would be out of his depth in a parking lot puddle”

“This young lady has delusions of adequacy”

“He sets low personal standards and then consistently fails to achieve them”

“This employee is depriving a village somewhere of an idiot”

“This employee should go far, and the sooner the better”

“Got a full 6-pack, but lacks the plastic thing to hold it all together”

“A gross ignoramus - 144 times worse than an ordinary ignoramus”

“He certainly takes a long time to make his pointless”

“He doesn’t have ulcers, but he’s a carrier”

“I would like to go hunting with him sometime”

“He’s been working with glue too much”

“He would argue with a signpost”

“He has knack for making strangers immediately”

“He brings a lot of joy whenever he leaves the room”

“When his IQ reaches 50, he should sell”

“If you see 2 people talking and one looks bored, he’s the other one”

“A photographic memory but with the cap over the lens”

“A prime candidate for natural deselect ion”

“Donated his brain to science before he was done using it”

“Gates are down, the lights are flashing, but the train isn’t coming”

“Has 2 brains, one is lost, the other is out looking for it”

“If he were any more stupid, he’d have to be watered twice a week”

“If you give him a penny for his thoughts, you’d get change”

“If you stand close enough to him, you can hear the ocean”

“It’s hard to believe that he beat out 1,000 other sperm”

“One neuron short of a synapse”

“Some drink from the fountain of knowledge, he only gargled”

“Takes him 12 hours to watch 60 Minutes”

“The wheel is turning, but the hamster is dead”