4 girls and a guy....

A few days ago, Meredith, Anna, Vania, Karla and myself are on the topic of why guys who are attached dun seem to come open about the relationship with their partners when they are with other girls.

All the girls feel that guys just want the extra attention, to prove that whilst in a relationship, they are still charming and have the ability to attract the opposite sex.

The girls say that, if the relationship is of a certain importance, in the first conversation of the guy, he will definitely mention about the girlfriend, somehow....

And if after so many conversations and the guy still fail to mention about the gf, then there must be some kinda problem in the relationship....

I agree to a certain extent, however, i personally felt that sometimes, guys are really less sensitive to such things. I agree if the relationship means something to you, u will definitely say it out sooner than later, but sometimes the guys just got engrossed in the conversation and slipped out of the mind. Lame but true... Sometimes it is just that innocent mistake....

And sometimes, actually most of the times, guy do not have the intention to lead the girls on, they just want to be nice...at least it is not subconsiously....... but whatever the case, I'm guilty or in a way people feel that I'm guilty for sometimes, like how they put it, leading people on. Sigh...

Sometimes, it just doesn't pay to be nice....